There on his shirt? Its a food stain. Why is this something to blog about? Since Alex was able to eat we have been feeding him. For almost 3 year we have been spoon feeding him. For a big chunk of that time it was because he did not have the motor skills to do it himself. Also when his feeds took an hour because of reflux/throw up I would give him toys to play with so he would have something to do. Those days are over. He has the skills to feed himself, and the throw up is very rare. Alex and I love routine, we thrive on it, so even change that is positive is hard for both of us.